I finally got around to cleaning my closet and dispose some of the things I don't need and won't be needing. Thanks to Ate Ivee's insistence (courtesy of Lingkod's rummage sale thingamajigs, which by the way happens December 1 at Essel Park, Telabastagan, City of San Fernando), I was able to motivate myself to sort out my clothes, shoes, bags and reading materials two weeks ago.
Though I know giving away some of my stuff was for a good cause, I can't help but feel a bit hesitant especially when I call to mind the memories attached to them. I also had a hard time deciding whether to give away this particular pair of skinny pants I love but rarely able to wear 'cause there's hardly any event I could wear it to. Now, it doesn't fit anymore but it crossed my mind to still keep it 'cause it might come in handy if I just lose a few pounds. Yes, I know that kind of reasoning always gets a lot of people hanging on to false hopes. Luckily, my better judgment took over.
It is a fact that if you keep a lot of old stuff in your closet, there won't be space for new ones. It’s also true in life. You can't keep living in the past, so they say. There are things you don't need that others may want, things you want but have to dispose of 'cause it wouldn't serve its purpose anymore, things you thought you like but ultimately proves to be useless, things you lose for some reason, and yes, there are also things you still want to keep no matter how worn out and damaged they may be 'cause you still use them and they give you something no new things could ever replace. It’s kinda like the same with people. They come, they go, some you deliberately cut off from your life, others deliberately drop you, and only a handful stay. And these people that stay are the ones worth keeping, no matter how flawed they are. In apparel term, they're what you call "comfort clothes."
But what a relief it is to see all those empty hangers lying around. I just realized I've been keeping a lot of things that I don't need any more, things that someone else might find more useful. Now that I cleared some space in my closet and shoe rack, I guess it’s time to find new ones to fill it. What do I know; I might find a handful that would later become my comfort clothes.
Really nice ate rhy... Lalim.. napaisip tuloy ako...
ReplyDeleteYes, there are really things we don't need that others may want. Call it selfishness but sometimes, we don't want to let go of something for fear that we can never find something much better than that, something that is worth the replacement. Worst, we don't want to share that thing with anyone else when in fact, it doesn't matter to us as much as it had mattered before.
There are also things we want but have to dispose of 'cause it wouldn't serve its purpose anymore, things we thought we like but ultimately proves to be useless, things we lose for some reason. Mahirap man pero ganun talaga eh.. Life goes on. We can't continue to dwell on the past...
There are things we still want to keep no matter how worn out and damaged they may be 'cause we still use them and they give you something no new things could ever replace...
I myself had done some clearing of my closet. In fact, I had already found new ones to fill it with. I just wish that what i found would fall under the category you called "comfort clothes". I believe it is... Hope you find yours too... :)
Thanks for the comment, Ron. Mini-blog na rin ito. hehe.... Btw, I do remember buying new clothes with you before Christmas. =)
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