December 15, 2007. Eight barangays from the City of San Fernando joined the competition this year which was held at the SM Amphitheater, SM City Pampanga. I didn't expect our Barangay (San Nicolas) would make it to the top three. Barangay Telabastagan took home the 1st Prize despite being the newest participant, this year being only its second (?) time to join the competition. Barangay San Felipe, which was last year's winner, bagged the 2nd prize and Barangay San Nicolas got the third prize (finally, a win after so many years).
Sunday, December 16, 2007
2007 Giant Lantern Festival
December 15, 2007. Eight barangays from the City of San Fernando joined the competition this year which was held at the SM Amphitheater, SM City Pampanga. I didn't expect our Barangay (San Nicolas) would make it to the top three. Barangay Telabastagan took home the 1st Prize despite being the newest participant, this year being only its second (?) time to join the competition. Barangay San Felipe, which was last year's winner, bagged the 2nd prize and Barangay San Nicolas got the third prize (finally, a win after so many years).
Friday, November 30, 2007
More Space for New Things
Though I know giving away some of my stuff was for a good cause, I can't help but feel a bit hesitant especially when I call to mind the memories attached to them. I also had a hard time deciding whether to give away this particular pair of skinny pants I love but rarely able to wear 'cause there's hardly any event I could wear it to. Now, it doesn't fit anymore but it crossed my mind to still keep it 'cause it might come in handy if I just lose a few pounds. Yes, I know that kind of reasoning always gets a lot of people hanging on to false hopes. Luckily, my better judgment took over.
It is a fact that if you keep a lot of old stuff in your closet, there won't be space for new ones. It’s also true in life. You can't keep living in the past, so they say. There are things you don't need that others may want, things you want but have to dispose of 'cause it wouldn't serve its purpose anymore, things you thought you like but ultimately proves to be useless, things you lose for some reason, and yes, there are also things you still want to keep no matter how worn out and damaged they may be 'cause you still use them and they give you something no new things could ever replace. It’s kinda like the same with people. They come, they go, some you deliberately cut off from your life, others deliberately drop you, and only a handful stay. And these people that stay are the ones worth keeping, no matter how flawed they are. In apparel term, they're what you call "comfort clothes."
But what a relief it is to see all those empty hangers lying around. I just realized I've been keeping a lot of things that I don't need any more, things that someone else might find more useful. Now that I cleared some space in my closet and shoe rack, I guess it’s time to find new ones to fill it. What do I know; I might find a handful that would later become my comfort clothes.
Thursday, November 29, 2007
What Curfew?
I did get a text message from my sister about the curfew, but what the heck, we already scheduled this meeting before anybody had a clue of what Trillanes was up to.
This is how we talk about politics (mostly on the local side)... over coffee and chips (preferably Oishi). If Goi wasn't such a Cinderella ('cause of some errand her sister asked her to do), we'd probably have time to cover 3rd District as well, hehe. I did beat the 12 midnight curfew. Got home at 10 minutes before 12 mn. =p
Friday, November 2, 2007
Windy and Far-Flung Pagudpud, Ilocos Norte
October 28-29, 2007. The last stop to our Ilocos trip, though we spent less than 24 hours in this place. From Vigan City we had to ride a bus to Laoag City for an hour and a half, then another hour and a half to Pagudpud. We arrived at Polaris Beach Resort in Barangay Saud at past 5pm with light rain tailing us. From the town of Bangui (where the windmills are), you'll already feel the strong winds and see the cloudy skies ahead. I almost expected a storm ('cause that's how it felt like). The owner of the resort said that the gloomy weather is normal in Pagudpud in the months of October to December. Nevertheless, its no bad timing for me as I was able to get good shots of the beach and the weather's just fine with the sun hiding behind the clouds. Good thing the rain was light enough to ignore. The waves though are too strong even at low tide, its a bit scary swimming specially if you're not that good like me (that's South China Sea for you).
Despite the delay in arriving at the resort and a few glitches with the resort's service (paghintayin ba naman ang mga gutom), we were able to enjoy the last hours of our stay, though we weren't able to see the Cape Bojeador lighthouse and the Bangui Windmills up close as there wasn't enough time for a side trip. The long walk to the rocky beach past Saud Beach Resort and all the other hotels was comforting because of the view and the windy weather. I don't even remember seeing most of the sights though I've been to Pagudpud 7 years ago. Perhaps the weather gives it a different look... or maybe its more developed now that's why its a bit unrecognizable apart from its golden sands and strong waves.
We almost got delayed checking out of the resort because we couldn't get enough of the view. I took more than 200 shots in Pagudpud beach alone... and that's only in a span of 3 hours. Our swimming time was only about 20 minutes on our way back to the resort, and we forgot to apply sunblock. We thought we wouldn't be able to swim because of the weather, but with a beach as beautiful as this, who could resist?
The Ilocos Highway
The road to Ilocos is long and winding and filled with great sights. Its a nature lover's delight that's why I barely slept during the long ride.
Ilocos Sunset
I love sunsets. That's why even if we were on the move, I just had to take a picture. One of the benefits of riding a mini-bus is you get to take good pictures without the window glass' reflection. Its hard to catch a perfect shot from a moving vehicle... I wasn't able to get a good shot in Pagudpud because the sun's almost gone when we got there (really long ride) and it was a bit cloudy.
The Charm of Old World Vigan
October 27-28, 2007. Arriving in Vigan after 8 hours of travel from Dau (with minimal sleep and still with OPES hangover), we went straight to Grandpa's Inn for our breakfast.
Our itinerary for the morning was to pass by the Heritage Site and go straight to Sta. Maria and back to Vigan for a night cap. I've always wanted to enjoy Vigan at night what with the full moon and the soft lights... very romantic, quaint and old world. Shopping for pasalubong can wait the next day. I had fun taking pictures during the night walk... I even met new playmates who gamely posed in front of the camera. The night didn't only reveal the splendor of the old city, it also revealed some of its oldest residents (see those orbs?). My sister (who's kind of clairvoyant) even saw a kapre in one of the photos.
We dined at Cafe Leona right at the end of Calle Crisologo. Their tables have been set outside the streets so you really get that Vigan feel while eating. I also like their menu--you get to choose between Thai, Italian, Japanese and Filipino food. Talk about variety (best for food lovers like us).
The next morning was scheduled for shopping. We were supposed to check out at 10 am because we had to travel 3 more hours and take two more buses to Pagudpud but we ended up leaving the place at 12 noon. It's hard to leave the place without taking a second look, though this is already my second time in Vigan after almost 7 years. Buti na lang 1 GB ang memory card or else there won't be pictures of Pagudpud. My Canon's first outing was really worth it.
Historic Ilocos Churches
October 26-29, 2007. An Ilocos tour would not be complete without seeing its historic churches. We weren't able to cover them all, but we were lucky enough to see three of these landmarks: Sta. Maria Church, St. Paul's Metropolitan Cathedral and Laoag's Sinking Bell Tower.
The Sta. Maria Church in Sta. Maria, Ilocos Sur was built in 1769 and is included in the UNESCO World Heritage list. A very picturesque church in a quiet town. If my digicam's battery wasn't drained, there would've been more shots. Thank God for my SE W800i or else there wouldn't be any pictures of this church to post.
St. Paul's Cathedral is located in Vigan City. It was built by the Augustinian friars and has a "distinct "Earthquake Baroque" style of the Ilocos region and features Neo-Gothic and pseudo Romanesque motifs," according to www.dotpcvc.gov.ph. The full moon gave the night shots an eerie feel, and if you look closely you'll see orbs. Spooky.
Seeing the Sinking Bell Tower was only by accident as we we only made a stopover to Laoag City for half an hour before going to Pagudpud. We only ate a quick lunch (at 3:00 pm) before proceeding to the bus terminal. Good thing I remembered to buy my contact lens solution from an optical shop which incidentally sits in front of the bell tower. So I got my digicam and took some photos. If you find the shots a bit off-center, that's because the Sinking Bell Tower sinks an inch every year, much like the Leaning Tower of Pisa... But the good thing is it's still working just like the bell tower in Sta. Maria. Unfortunately, the Sinking Bell Tower is 85 meters away from the church so we weren't able to get a peek at St. William's Church, which is older than the Paoay Church also located in Ilocos Norte.
If churches here were as beautiful as these ones, I'd probably hear mass everyday. =)
Pristine Pinsal Falls
Located in Barangay Babal-lasioan, Sta. Maria, Ilocos Sur, Pinsal Falls became part of our itinerary during our weekend Ilocos getaway last October 26-29, 2007. Thanks in part to the MNTC calendar hanging in my room that I found out of its existence.
More than an hour away from Vigan City, Pinsal Falls can be reached through the Municipality of Sta. Maria. From the town proper, it is almost an hour's tricycle ride away. Its location is really remote that you can't help but wonder how special it could be to be hidden from mortal eyes. Yet when we got there, we found out that locals practically pass by it in going to and from Pilar, Abra, hence the steep stone steps which reminds me of the path of Cirith Ungol in the Lord of the Rings.
Boat ride to the falls is only Php15 per person, but you have to wait a long time for other passengers. One of the locals even told us about the hot springs at the topmost part, but we weren't able to get there and soak in it for lack of time... and lack of boat to take us back. There was only one boat traversing the calm river to the falls when we were there and we seem to be the only tourists.
If only we got there a little bit earlier, then there'd probably be plenty of time for a few more hikes... But then again, there's always another time.
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Early Birthday Present
Last Saturday (October 20), my sister Lee bought me a copy of Chicosci's album (although I really don't need one as I already downloaded all their songs from Multiply) just so I could have it signed after their show. It's really a treat watching the band perform live. They had a great show though the crowd was a bit tame, which my brother Soc also observed. I even got Calde (who was celebrating
his birthday on that day) to scribble happy birthday on the CD cover for me. Despite the bad shot that Sweet took when I was with Miggy, I was happy enough with his capture of me and Mong (God, I love him), hence the cover. Poor Sweet, he was really sorry I was annoyed.
It may not be a match to professional digital cameras (I'm no pro anyway, just a hobbyist), but I'm happy enough with the buy. I like its features, its design and its size (as small as my own mobile phone)... And now that I have a new digicam, I'm itching to go somewhere. If only I could... Wishful thinking na naman. Better wrap this up and go to bed, Monday na naman. (*big sigh*)
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Death Note
Rating: | ★★★★★ |
Category: | Other |
Death Note is originally a Japanese manga series written by Tsugumi Ohba and illustrated by Takeshi Obata. The manga was serialized in Shonen Jump, its first issue appearing on December 2003. The anime series aired in Japan from October 3, 2006 to June 26, 2007. The manga was adapted into two live-action films which were released in Japan on June 17, 2006 and November 3, 2006, respectively.
Death Note begins with a Shinigami (God of Death) named Ryuk dropping a death note, resembling an ordinary notebook, to the human world. The notebook is picked up by 17 year-old high school student Light Yagami, an academic wonder who, despite his genius and popularity, is extremely bored at the present state of his life. He first hesitates at picking up the death note, believing it to be a fake, but his curiosity got the better of him.
Examining the notebook, Light reads a set of instructions on how the death note works, one of which claims that the human whose name is written in the death note shall die. Skeptical of the results, he tries to verify its authenticity. Upon learning the powers of the death note, he resolves to use it to pass judgment to criminals, believing that he alone can perform a justifiable deed. Acting with a strong sense of justice, he decides to create a world where only good people exist and make himself a God of this new world.
In the process, he earns himself both admirers and enemies, the most noteworthy and resolute of the latter is the world’s top detective known by the police force as L. As the death of criminals begins to be noticed by the world, the international police force starts to brand him as a mass murderer and serial killer. A psychological cat and mouse chase ensues between Light and L as the former tries desperately to hide his identity as the perpetrator of the deaths while the latter uses all his influence to profile the killer and uncover his method of killing.
The anime is laced with moral dilemmas especially on the actions of the central character Light. With the belief that ridding the world of evil through the use of the death note is a just act, Light has effectively justified his actions and cleansed his conscience of guilt. His self-righteous attitude which surfaced upon acquiring the power of the death note all the more contributes to his conviction. However, despite the elevated status he has accorded himself, he is still fearful of being publicly linked with the killer whom the world branded as Kira, thus his motivation in conjuring elaborate plans to confuse his pursuers.
The series examines the human condition which Dostoevsky’s Crime and Punishment also tackled, but less the suffering and guilt. The similarity between the classic novel and this anime is also noticeable on the main characters. Light Yagami calls to mind Dostoevsky’s Rodion Romanovich Raskolnikov—both of them are ambitious, proud, and intellectually gifted. They also share the view that they are both super-humans (in Raskolnikov’s term), or gods (in Light’s vocabulary) and therefore above social conventions.
Despite this resemblance, Death Note is worth watching, all 37 episodes of it. Each episode leaves you wanting to watch the next one, not only to see what happens next, but also to find out if your speculations are right or if you’ve been outwitted again by the plot. Not your typical anime, this series is dark, intelligent and mature (much like the kind of man I want, hehehe). Definitely not for kids but highly recommended for those looking for something out of the ordinary.
Watching the series, I cannot help recalling this line from a well-known film, “Do not be so eager to deal out death as judgment. Many who live deserve death, and many who die deserve life. Can you give it to them?” One wise wizard once said, “Even the wisest cannot see all ends.” Indeed. And in the end, it is still the Death Gods’ call.
Friday, July 20, 2007
HP 7 Finally!
With the book now in my possession, I think my weekend will be full. I wonder if I'll sleep? Hmmm... I guess, that would depend on the pacing of the story. I just hope it wouldn't be a disappointment. I was hoping Voldemort would kill off Harry, but based on the hints going around, it's unlikely. And speaking of leakages, I got hold of a copy yesterday, a day short of it's release. (Ever heard about the compiled photographed pages of the book circulating on the net?) Now, I can tell you, the leakage is authentic based on the first and last few pages (cover, dedication, table of contents, the first page and the last page of the body). I haven't browsed the rest of the book but I'm sure it's the same thing. Lucky for those who've read the leakage ahead of everyone else.
Well then, I better start to end it all. Somehow, it doesn't feel like goodbye with this book, unlike with the last LOTR book, The Return of the King. I postponed reading that one until after the movie version though I already have a copy of the book and despite the fact that a lot of people have read the ending 50 years ago. I just couldn't say goodbye, I guess... I'm not comparing. There's really no comparison to JRR Tolkien. The only similar thing between him and JK Rowling is the first letter of their name. Other than that, there's no point scrutinizing.
I just hope all will be well, just like the last sentence of Book 7 says. Oops! I forgot to warn you... spoiler!
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Vandalisms
FA Wall:
"nobody cares"
somebody answered:
"not even the carebares?"
then another:
"not even kier?"
then:
"not even zoren?"
lastly:
"not even zorro?"
all written by different people.
AS:
AS chairs:
"push button to eject seatmate"
"push button to eject urself"
"push button to kill teacher."
"push button to eject teacher"
....reply: "it's jammed! We're doomed!"
AS cubicle:
"Donate your bulbol here.." tapos may
chewing gum na
pagdidikitan. ...
AS chair :
"you know bobo? bobo is you!"
AS 1st floor CR:
"if you forget the past, then you
porget
the purious.."
AS 1st floor CR uli:
" Im a simple gay "
tapos me sumagot
"sira! Dapat 'Im simple and gay!' Taga
peyups ka ba? duh! "
tapos me sumagot ulit (with matching
arrow pa na nakaturo dun sa reply)
"sira ka rin! yung simple is used as an
adjective tapos
yung gay is used as a noun. kaya ok
lang
yung simple gay nya!"
CHEM:
Chem chair:
"push button to spray acid on prof's
face."
Another chem chair:
"You Boron!!!"
BIO:
Bio chair:
"Push cadaver to haunt teacher."
FO Santos:
"SA MGA NAGTATAPON NG BASURA DITO...
bawal."
ENG'G:
Sa Men's CR, facing the urinal:
"Hawak ko saking mga kamay ang
kinabukasan ng bayan!"
Reply:
"the future you are holding is very
small."
GAB:
sa likod ng armchair sa isang room sa
GAB:
"takas ng ward 7"
MATH:
sa cr sa may math building:
"SUMAPI SA NPA! "
may sumagot:
"PAANO? "
may sumagot pa:
"MAGFILL UP NG COUPON AT IHULOG SA
PINAKAMALAPIT NA DROP
BOX SA SUKING TINDAHAN!"
sa math building, sa likod ng isang
"teacher's chair" sa 3rd floor:
"BABALA: asawa ni babalu"
sa math 3rd floor, sa isang upuan uli.
"you'll NEVER find what you're looking
for"
May nag-reply:
"find x."
sa math 3rd floor, sa isa pang upuan
uli.
nakasulat sa armchair:
"F*CK DA WORLD! "
ta's may sumagot:
"F*CK U TOO!
--WORLD?"
3rd floor math cr:
"kaibigan, pagkapatos mong umihi, paki
PLUS mo naman, hehehe."
UPIS
sa loob ng music room.
"maam _______(music prof) boses
palaka! "
tas may sumagot
"nakarinig ka na ba ng boses ng
palaka "
tas may sumagot uli
"weh "
tas may nag-react uli
"oo, sabi kokak!kokak! "
VINZONS:
Wall ng vinzons
"Do not steal. The government hates
competition"
men's cr sa Vinzon's:
"remember: the hands that clean this
toilet are the same
hands that cook your food."
men's cr waaaay above the urinal:
"if you can reach this, the fire
department wants you!"
NIGS:
sa isang upuan:
"f*ck nigs!"
may nagreply:
"who's nigs?"
MAIN LIB
Sa isang lamesa ng main lib,
filipiniana
section:
"UP STUDENTS HAS BECOME PATETHIC"
tapos may sumagot...
" mali pang grammar at spelling mo,
halatang di ka taga UP"
KALAI:
nietzsche-"god is dead"
God- "Nietzsche is dead!"
SC:
sa labas ng PNB:
"in case of emergency break ass and
push
butt"
sa girls' CR:
"Bawal ang vandal Dito!...
Mommy said: First Aid Terramycin"
sa girls' CR uli:
"My boyfriend and I had sex and now I'm
pregnant"
Reply:
"Pray to God"
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
WITERARY - SIGN OFF! Bloopers I see during travel
If you're one of those people who laughed hysterically upon receiving the email "Nakakahimatay na mga Signs" you'll definitely bookmark this site. After all, it is here where most of those photographed signs were taken.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
Good Old Days
I went back home the other day
To see some old friends that I used to know
It was strange to see what all had changed
But just like me my hometown had to grow
On lazy Sunday afternoons
We used to drive around the neighborhood
But as I look around I see
That nothing really looks the way it should
There's a parking lot where the church used to be
And the old town drunk changed his ways
Still my mind goes wandering down memory lane
Looking 'round for the good old days
My high-school sweetheart's married off
With two kids and another on the way
And my coach I hardly recognized
His thick black hair has slowly turned to grey
All the debutantes and the homecoming queen
Have taken kids on to raise
Still my mind goes wandering down memory lane
Looking 'round for the good old days
When I find myself romancing now
Of the way that it used to be
I can't help thinking someday
That it's coming back to me
But I've never been the kind
To see the forest for the trees
Looking back on yesterday
Never was my favorite thing to do
But that's OK it's just as well
It's seems as though there's less to hold on to
There's a parking lot where the church used to be
And the old town drunk changed his ways
Still my mind goes wandering down memory lane
Looking 'round for the good old days
Thursday, June 21, 2007
hmmm....
And in the span of time that it took writing this blog, wala pa rin kaming naisip na food na kakainin... pero gutom na kami! Waaahh!
P.S. Pero kung libre okay lang kahit ano. Di ba?
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Filipino Signs of Wit
I read this on a website that was recommended by a friend and I just thought its a nice article worth sharing.
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This week, we shall take a “reading tour” of one of the most spirited communities in
Much of the word play in the
For example, there is a bread shop in
Reader Robert Harland also spotted a bakery named Bread Pitt, and a
Smart travelers can decipher what may look like baffling signs to unaccustomed foreigners by simply sounding out the “Taglish” (the Philippine version of English words spelled and pronounced with a heavy Filipino accent), such as, at a restaurant menu in
There are also many signs with either badly chosen or misspelled words, but they are usually so entertaining that it would be a mistake to “correct” them. A reader named Antonio “Tonyboy” Ramon T. Ongsiako, (now there’s a truly Filipino name), contributed the following interesting Philippine signs and advertisements:
In a restaurant in
Some of the notices can even give a wrong impression, such as, a shoe store in Pangasinan which has a sign saying: “We Sell Imported Robber Shoes” (these could be the “sneakiest” sneakers); and a rental property sign in Jaro,
Occasionally, one could come across signs that are truly unique–if not altogether odd. Reader Gunilla Edlund submitted a sign that she saw at the ticket booth in the ferry pier in
According to Manila businessman, Tonyboy Ongsiako, there is so much wit in the
Nury Vittachi - The Far Eastern Economic Review
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Thursday, April 19, 2007
Top Ten Fake Excuses For Work
Need an excuse to skip work? Try some of these unusual ones that CareerBuilder.com dug up in a recent survey:
1. I dreamt that I had been fired, so I didn't bother to get out of bed.
2. I had to take my cat to the dentist.
3. I got all the way to the office and realised I was still in my pyjamas and had to go home to change.
4. I saw that you weren't in the office, so I went out looking for you.
5. I couldn't find the right tie, so I had to wait for the shops to open to buy one.
6. My son tried to flush our ferret down the toilet and I needed to tend to it.
7. I ran over a goat.
8. I stopped for a muffin, the shop was robbed and the police required everyone to stay for questioning.
9. A bee flew in my car and attacked me and I had to pull over.
10. I wet my pants and went home to change.
According to the survey, one in five employees admits to making up fake excuses and only 35 percent of employers say they don't believe the excuses. So, what are you waiting for? Just make sure your boss belongs to the 65% who would buy these excuses.
Source: Reader's Digest April 2007 Issue
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Sunday, February 11, 2007
The Science of Love
In the February 2007 issue of the Reader's Digest, Megan Gressor writes about science and love. Believe it or not, scientists are actually researching about this feeling called love. Listed below are 12 scientifically-proven ways to find the perfect match (almost), dismissing certain cliches exploited in romantic movies and novels while justifying others.
1. LIKE SEEKS LIKE
2. DECLARE YOUR DESIRE
According to social psychologist Dr. Arthur Aron, a major turn-on is the simple realization that someone fancies you. We warm up to people who are nice to us. Haven't you noticed that most of the men who get the good girls are bolero?
3. THE EYES HAVE IT
Love at first sight? Not quite, but scientists have proven that the longer you stare at the eyes of a prospective partner, the more you like what you see. And it's a plus if your pupils are dilated (kind of like being on drugs, don't you think so?). According to a research conducted by University of Chicago professor Eckard Hess, having dilated pupils is the most attractive attribute we find in the opposite sex. Subjects who were shown two identical photos (save for the pupil size) of the opposite sex preferred the photos of the subject with larger pupils. The reason? Apparently, enlarged pupils signal intense arousal.
4. BODY LANGUAGE
The saving grace of people who don't have anything intelligent to say. The most effective ones include staring and smiling, and playing with your hair. What turns on men, according to author Allan Pease (The Definitive Guide to Body Language), is female "submission" gestures. These "submission" gestures include exposure of vulnerable areas such as the wrists or neck, or the leg twine maneuver popularized by Princess Diana.
5. BE BEAUTIFUL
I'm talking about physical beauty not the inner beauty that we've been told a thousand times to value when seeking a partner. Good-looking people, according to Gressor, are almost universally viewed as smarter, sexier and more successful than their simpler counterparts. Evolutionary social theorists say that we prefer attributes that improve the chances of successful reproduction. Now you know why men go for younger women with long, shiny hair and full hips, and women like taller and older men.
6. HOME IS WHERE IT'S AT
So that's why long-distance relationships don't work. Forget about the cliche 'absence makes the heart grow fonder.' Apparently, repeated exposure to the object of our desire is more beneficial as it makes us like the other person more, unless we dislike them the first time we set eyes on them. Propinquity, indeed, makes the heart grow fonder.
7. AVOID COMPARISONS
Never compare your prospective partners to the "it" boys and girls on glossy magazine covers. A study made by Sara Gutierres and Douglas Kenrick of Arizona State University's psychology department showed that men gave their prospective partners lower scores after being shown Playboy centerfolds and watching a TV show with pretty female stars.
8. LOVE AT FIRST FRIGHT
They say the more aroused we are when we're with a prospective partner, the more attractive we're likely to find them. This was tested by University of Texas psychologists Cindy Meston and Penny Frohlich when they asked subjects to rate members of the opposite sex before and after a roller coaster ride. It turns out that whatever the cause of our thumping heart, if we ascribe it to the person we're with, we feel attracted to her or him. I think they call it excitation transfer.
9. NAMING GAME
What's in a name? Apparently, a lot, according to Dr. Albert Mehrabian of the University of California's psychology department. People perceive that you share the same attributes with well-known person just because you share their name. Some names are also linked to negative attributes such as Roxanne, Bertha or Darcy. So parents, think wisely when it comes to naming your kids. People would definitely have second thoughts dating people named Adolf, Homer, Saddam or Randy. Although here in the Philippines, I know a lot of people named Randy. Look it up the dictionary if you don't get what I mean.
10. BEER GOGGLES
I haven't stayed that long in a bar to see this effect, but studies have shown that single people seeking partners in bars are less picky as closing time approaches. This finding was dubbed as the "beer-goggles effect." Professor Jamie Pennebaker of the University of Texas asked subjects to rate potential partners thrice, from 9 pm, 10:30 pm and midnight. The results? The subjects rated their potential dates highest by midnight.
11. KEEP THEM HAPPY
In short, the better we feel, the more we like whomever we're with. So men, cheer her up fast.
12. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS
Research shows that women who advertise themselves focus on their appearances while men emphasize their resources. The older a man is, the more replies he gets while the opposite is true for women. But if you don't have the looks or the resources, it's important to put in the word "warm" in your ad. I guess that would suffice for most people.
BOTTOM LINE:
The bottom line, according to Gressor, in scoring the perfect partner: "... take your date bungy-jumping or sky diving to ensure they are well-aroused, catch a movie featuring lots of ugly actors, then finish the evening in a dimly lit bar. Even if the beer-goggles effect doesn't kick in, the darkness should dilate your pupils and enhance your chances."
Source: The Science of Love by Megan Gressor (Reader's Digest, February 2007 Issue)
For the full article, click here.